There is a 15 amp in-line fuse on the relay bracket under the hood. (Passenger side) Have you checked it? Are you getting power to the relay pin 87 in at the connector? Also, relay pin 85 should get voltage from the PCM to actuate the relay. Are you getting power to it as well?
Let me know. Also, I attached a pic below showing the schematic related to the relay, so you have a reference. Additionally, here is a link you may find of interest:
Let me know what you find or if you have questions. Also, pic 2 shows the fuse location.
See pics below.
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Monday, October 10th, 2022 AT 8:55 PM