1992 Ford Tempo solenoid

For what solenoid?

At the small terminal S the red and lite blue wire goes there. The other small wires with the lump on it goes to the battery terminal coming from the battery.

Do this use a jumper cable and jump both battery terminal on the starter relay -did the starter crank the engine over?

At the red and lite blue wire-have helper hold key in cranking position-do you have power-if not could be an ignition switch, neutral safety switch on the transmission or the starter itself