BCM need to know where mine is located?

Your car doesn't have a single BCM it instead has three modules that share the PCM duties. The Dash Integration Module, the Instrument Panel Module and the Rear Integration Module. However none of those sounds the chime, those come through the radio speakers. The various chimes start out at the switches and sensors, the data goes onto the data buss to the DIM which then sends a request for whichever chime note is requested. The radio then creates the correct chime from the table in it and sends the tone out to the speakers. There is no element that can be removed and there is no way to program out the chimes as they are not in the software but hardware (the chime info is part of the radios chipset)

The part they sell as the BCM is actually the DIM, the Dash Integration Module. It's one of the three modules that control the body systems and one that is the most failure prone. Attached are the three circuit diagrams for the modules. In a vehicle with a single module BCM they integrate the three systems into more of a single module with maybe one or two specific functions as a different module depending on the options. Might I ask why you want to eliminate the chimes so much? Not a common issue that is asked. Depending on which chime it would stop them if you fully disconnect the radio, but then you are left with none of the important warning chimes either. If they are constantly going off there is usually some failure involved.