No headlights brake lights except for the third the dashboard lights won’t come on

I went out to start it. It fired right up. Went to turn the knob to turn the lights on and I had no lights. The only brake light I had that came on was the third one above the back glass. So there’s no headlights brake lights except for the third the dashboard lights won’t come on. No parking lights the turn signals work and the reverse light works. I’ve checked all the fuses replaced the relay. But when I started the car the knob where you turn the lights on that was lit. But when I turned it over to turn them on it went off. The bright lights work on when I pull and hold them back to me.