Hello there to you from South Dakota. I live in the state capitol, Pierre. If you have the ability to pull the code from the engine that would help a bunch. Blowing the fuse is an unusual problem but most likely indicates that the ECM is bad. BUT it could be another issue causing that. Your best bet is to have Honda test the ecm or replace it with a used one. There is a Honda or foreign parts salvage yard in Rapid City that may be able to give you some assistance in getting a used ECM. Can't remember the name but it is just north of I90 in the area where they just put in some new roads. Good luck!