2002 Honda Odyssey Front wheel hub nut

I broke the 1 lug when trying to remove front right lug nuts.
There is no opening or room to fully punch out
lug. The back of the hub has a area close and raised and will not allow you to punch the lug thru. The spindle nut is 36mm. Is this the only way I have or is there another solution? If I have to remove spindle nut how do I stop the front hub from moving as I turn the nut. Can you tell me what the torque is on the nut.