2000 Chrysler Van tightening sequence of connecting rod cap

Each time I start to tighten my new connecting rod bearings onto the crank I cannot rotate the flywheel.

I had one bearing which was shot.

I know the torque is around 40 ft lbs!

I tried using the starter to tap it over but no dice. It wont turn it either.
The only thing I can think of is the sequence. Merry Xmas and I need a present quick or TNT.