1998 Ford F150 shifting points messed up

Hi my ford has a big problem. First when you start up and shift to rev. its fine, shift to d. its fine, but shift to 2nd and it stalls. Then go back to park, start it then shift to drive then its fine untill you are moving. Then it shifts too quick ,it will pull out in 1st skip 2nd then to 3rd then to 4th before I reach 20 mph so i'm crusing along at 20 mph at about 600 rpm almost stalling out.Then I try to stop at a stop sign and if you don't start applying the brake about 500 ft from the stop it will stall out. It seems like it takes way too long to shift down to 1st gear. And if you pull into a parking spot and don't stall it when you start it up again it will pull out in whatever gear it was in sometimes 4thgear.And also the overdrine button on the shifter doesn"t work it just blinks off PLEASE HELP