Wont Crank no Power to starter

When I go to start the car the starter does nothing the fuse box clicks but nothing to the starter I tore the intake off and had the starter tested it its fine I replaced the starter relay checked all the grounds and tested all the starter wires on the starter relay plug I jumped from the red wire to the purple starter wire and nothing happened I ran a wire from the battery to that purple starter wire and the starter engaged I tested the 2 yellow wires with key on that I believe to be ignition and pcm and I had 9v on the small yellow and 12v on larger one I have tried about everything I know and I cant figure it out

any help would be appreciated thanks matt