this shudder is your torgue converter lockup mechanism. I think maybe the switch might be going bad, take it to a transmission shop and just explain whats happening and they can tell you if thats it. I'm almost 100 percent positive, by what your telling me. I think there is a way you can unlplug the switch just to see if it still does it and if it doesnt then thats how you know its definitley the switch.