Electrical problem
1996 Pontiac Grand Am 4 cyl Front Wheel Drive Automatic 100000 miles
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I was wondering where the stater relay is located on this car. I cant find the part online. I ve replaced the starter and battery. Car was running fine when I parked it. Came out a week later to start nothing. When i turn the ignition on everything lights up and when i turn the key all the way the headlamps go out and then when I let go of the ignition they turn back on. Someone had mentioned a ignition switch. If so what does that involve to do. Im a decent mechanic so no need to put things in simple terms.
Thanks KEVIN

You don't have a starter relay-could be the ignition switch or the Park and Neutral position switch. See below